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Lyssjfit
January 5, 2017
10:56 am
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TableSalt
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Meows: 11
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January 5, 2017

I literally made an account for this (sad, I know haha). 

 

I've followed this girl for months now, and at the beginning I spoke to her privately and tried to help whenever she had her little breakdowns over absolutely nothing, and she was completely pleasant, she seems like a completely lovely person… BUT I was so overly picky with the wording, what I said etc to her, nothing was out of place, it was exhausting. It's just a shame that someone who CAN be so kind, acts so appallingly 99% of the time. 

 

I once listened to her rant about someone insulting her posing, and I went to look for the comment, because I assumed it had been an absolutely vulgar comment, I found it and honestly it was nothing. A girl had asked her why her hands shook, in such a nice way, but Llyss TORE her down so viciously, and the girl actually wrote back begging her forgiveness – F*CK THAT – and Lyss ignored the apology, no "oh it's okay" etc. She's just evil sometimes. 

 

I'd NEVER comment on any of her posts, I'm too scared hahaha. The way that she speaks to people is disgusting and she always justifies it by saying "I'm just being real", yeah a real b*tch. angry

 

Rant over hahha. 

January 5, 2017
12:33 pm
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Smoosh
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Meows: 3
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January 5, 2017

I made an account for this as well. 

 

I will admit I hate check her IG because it's like a train wreck. I can't stop looking. She is so up and down with all of her emotions, she's CONSTANTLY talking shit on her followers and she OVERSHARES (do people really care that your peeing or sitting on your couch in your underwear watching a movie?). I actually discovered this forum because she posted it on her insta story and b***hed about it in 5 different videos. I think Lyss is addicted to her "social media fame" and it's caused an inflated ego and unwell mental state. She's the one who has opened her entire life for the whole wide world to see and pick apart and then gets mad when they do or when they say nice things that are not worded exactly as she would like or stuff that is unfavorable to her. Honestly, if this journey was really for her then she would have a private Instagram with no followers, or she would document it in a blog or a journal not an open IG w/ 40K followers. She always says stuff like "I'm not a celebrity, I'm a human being" but honestly I think she says that but doesn't mean it. I think she does think she's a celebrity and she's trying to play cool. Idk.. she's a ridiculous human being and someone said it on this thread earlier that her story could be so much more inspiring if she was a nicer person. newhere

January 5, 2017
4:46 pm
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2 bites of this, one bite of that
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Meows: 12
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September 9, 2016

Gimme Another Snork Juice meowed 
I'm so glad there is a thread for her here now! I agree with everything said above. You can tell she's incredibly immature and totally unaware of how the real world works. I started hate following her awhile back when I noticed her popping up in my Instagram feed.. she looked really young and had a "Faculty of UNB Kinesiology" sweatshirt on I was intrigued. Apparently she was so proud of finishing one semester of college that she special ordered the shirt from the school bookstore. Among other things, I get the feeling that she doesn't know what "faculty" means LOL

Faculty has two meanings in a university context: teaching staff, and also a division of study in a university. Degrees are administered by different faculties, depending on what you study. In Canada (and a lot of countries) it's really common for undergraduate students to wear sweatshirts that say "faculty of" and/or the university name. Particularly first year students wear them, they're proud and excited to be there. In contrast, faculty members rarely/never wear faculty or university clothing. 

 

I've been following Lyssjfit for about 6 months and she would be a definite SOMI for me, except for her recent behaviour. Not to wk, but I think she's probably very bored, stressed and anxious at home, and she's flying off the handle about small things. I was pretty shocked when I saw her b***hing out people for saying pretty innocuous things, as others have said the comments she took so much issue with were supporting her or being excited for her. If she wants to have that account for her business she needs to cut the attitude though. It seems like there's too much blur between business and social lives on instragram, and girls like lyssjfit and missfitbliss don't recognize that the way they interact with people is noticed by thousands, and word of mouth spreads even further. That's no way to act if you want to make it your livelihood. 

 

On the upside, I liked watching her surgery prep – she was really dedicated and did all the right things to ensure she was in peak condition so she'd recover well. Compared to another recent skin removal girl I follow, eff_being_fat, their prep and recoveries are light night and day. She's clearly really passionate, but needs to step away for a bit until she gets her head in a better space to be sharing so much of herself.

January 5, 2017
7:08 pm
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rj88
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Meows: 4
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January 5, 2017

I had to start a new account because I follow this chick. She's young, a little quick to jump down someone's throat BUT if you read her page and have followed her for any length of time instead of knee jerk b***hing at her latest posts, then you'll understand that she was doing a 6 mth bodybuilding bro diet prep to lean out for a reason. She wanted to get as lean as possible without losing the muscle mass she worked hard to get. She got a couple contest prep coaches to handle her diet manipulation. For crying out loud, l get she can be cranky but don't diss her effort into getting her body fat down for the surgery. She did it to have as few complications as possible. Her weight will go back up a bit as she goes back to bulking again and then repeat the cycle for her other surgeries. And if someone was stealing your videos and making money off them to sell stupid diet products, you'd probably be ticked off too. She has valid points.  I plan to do what she's done. I'd like to have the same result. I didn't need to lose that much weight but child birth was a b***h to my tummy.  Granted I'm not putting my stuff up on IG but if she hadn't put her journey up there, I would never have thought to do something like this to get ready. So good for her, she's inspirational. To me! 

January 5, 2017
8:13 pm
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whirling
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Meows: 25
Snarking Since:
January 3, 2017

rj88 meowed
I had to start a new account because I follow this chick. She's young, a little quick to jump down someone's throat BUT if you read her page and have followed her for any length of time instead of knee jerk b***hing at her latest posts, then you'll understand that she was doing a 6 mth bodybuilding bro diet prep to lean out for a reason. She wanted to get as lean as possible without losing the muscle mass she worked hard to get. She got a couple contest prep coaches to handle her diet manipulation. For crying out loud, l get she can be cranky but don't diss her effort into getting her body fat down for the surgery. She did it to have as few complications as possible. Her weight will go back up a bit as she goes back to bulking again and then repeat the cycle for her other surgeries. And if someone was stealing your videos and making money off them to sell stupid diet products, you'd probably be ticked off too. She has valid points.  I plan to do what she's done. I'd like to have the same result. I didn't need to lose that much weight but child birth was a b***h to my tummy.  Granted I'm not putting my stuff up on IG but if she hadn't put her journey up there, I would never have thought to do something like this to get ready. So good for her, she's inspirational. To me! 

Most people on here agree that she worked hard, did her research, and will likely have great results from it. There are plenty of other fitness IGers who clearly have no clue what they're doing – she's not one of them. 

It's also fair that she's upset that people are stealing her videos. 

The problem is that she has a terrible attitude and b***hes out people who are kind to her. As others in this thread have said, if she wants to start a business coaching others, she's sure as hell not building a great reputation by ripping someone a new one just because they didn't word their compliment correctly. 

Honestly, I cut her slack for a lot of things – I'm sure she's been dealing with a lot of anxiety and pressure before and after these surgeries. She's bound to have some bad days. But her crap attitude isn't confined to just one bad day… it's been around for a while. 

January 5, 2017
8:56 pm
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Pineapple Head
Feline Porklord
Meows: 2289
Snarking Since:
October 19, 2011

rj88 meowed

I had to start a new account because I follow this chick. She's young, a little quick to jump down someone's throat BUT if you read her page and have followed her for any length of time instead of knee jerk b***hing at her latest posts, then you'll understand that she was doing a 6 mth bodybuilding bro diet prep to lean out for a reason. She wanted to get as lean as possible without losing the muscle mass she worked hard to get. She got a couple contest prep coaches to handle her diet manipulation. For crying out loud, l get she can be cranky but don't diss her effort into getting her body fat down for the surgery. She did it to have as few complications as possible. Her weight will go back up a bit as she goes back to bulking again and then repeat the cycle for her other surgeries. And if someone was stealing your videos and making money off them to sell stupid diet products, you'd probably be ticked off too. She has valid points.  I plan to do what she's done. I'd like to have the same result. I didn't need to lose that much weight but child birth was a b***h to my tummy.  Granted I'm not putting my stuff up on IG but if she hadn't put her journey up there, I would never have thought to do something like this to get ready. So good for her, she's inspirational. To me! 

I don't think a single person here b***hed about her prep, in fact several of us said she is inspiring. I have been following her for quite a while now since just after prep started I think, and although her attitude more recently is extra stank there have been multiple times over the months where she's been nasty to someone for no reason. Maybe she's hangry.

She's mentioned repeatedly that she's working with people and theirs a science to what she's doing and I think that's incredibly impressive and from the endless pics and videos her results look great just don't tell her that cos then your a creep and an asshole and she's not doing this for you and why the hell should you care?!?!?

She needs to pull in the reins of her Instagram useage, it's manic and insane and actually put thought into posts instead of posting every single second.

Tldr: no one is snarking in her prep or surgery but the nasty attitude she has isn't new, just magnified cos she's not st the gym 24/7 taking selfies.

January 5, 2017
9:00 pm
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Lunarz
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Meows: 4
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January 5, 2017

I do agree with rj88 that she has worked hard and shown great determination. I started following her exactly because I was so impressed with what she had done, and was looking for tips and advice on how to lose weight myself. That is the sad part really – the people who she is being mean to are not just her instagram followers, they are people who have been through their own struggles and were looking up to her as someone who could inspire them. She is very fond of telling her followers in her rants that she is just a human being with her own issues – well so are the people she is lashing out at. Ironically, if she just took the comments in the way in which they've were intended – kind, supportive comments from people who were inspired by her – she may not suffer from as many anxiety issues as she clearly does.

January 5, 2017
9:10 pm
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Pineapple Head
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Meows: 2289
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October 19, 2011

Lunarz meowed

I do agree with rj88 that she has worked hard and shown great determination. I started following her exactly because I was so impressed with what she had done, and was looking for tips and advice on how to lose weight myself

Except she refuses to give any tips or advice because "this is all just for me and what I'm doing and why should I give free advice and tips…this is my business if you want it you pay" (paraphrasing) then when people do want to pay gets angry because they expect her to reply and rants about how her focus isn't her business it's her prep and stop emailing her repeatedly and how she'd set aside a day a week to reply to people.
But you know it's her business Instagram that's also just for her.

It's exhausting

January 5, 2017
9:43 pm
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rj88
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Meows: 4
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January 5, 2017

The thing is, her page exploded with followers just recently. Then she got tons of PM/email negativity along with the support . Dealing with negative emails and trolls calling her a meth head, ungrateful c**t, just to name a few might put you in a cranky frame of mind. If you go over her 6mth journey, you see the same questions asked that have been answered on her posts. It takes a lot of time to answer emails and repeat answers. I'm not saying she's not been cranky, she has been. But I guarantee everyone of us has been b***hy and said things or taken shit too personally at times, etc. She's admits that she's sensitive in a few of her earlier posts. I just don't think all the support and all the negativity was something she expected to receive so quickly. While you think it's exhausting, I'm sure she thinks it's 10x worse dealing with it.  I wish I had 1/10th the drive to get shit done that she has. She's been going to school for the last couple years. Not just this past semester like a PP said. She just changed universities last semester to follow a different degree. Lots of changes for her. I realize I'm caping but I'm cool with it..lol..sfun_chickendance

January 5, 2017
9:56 pm
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McSnarky
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Meows: 47
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August 3, 2016

rj88 meowed

The thing is, her page exploded with followers just recently. Then she got tons of PM/email negativity along with the support . Dealing with negative emails and trolls calling her a meth head, ungrateful c**t, just to name a few might put you in a cranky frame of mind. If you go over her 6mth journey, you see the same questions asked that have been answered on her posts. It takes a lot of time to answer emails and repeat answers. I'm not saying she's not been cranky, she has been. But I guarantee everyone of us has been b***hy and said things or taken shit too personally at times, etc. She's admits that she's sensitive in a few of her earlier posts. I just don't think all the support and all the negativity was something she expected to receive so quickly. While you think it's exhausting, I'm sure she thinks it's 10x worse dealing with it.  I wish I had 1/10th the drive to get shit done that she has. She's been going to school for the last couple years. Not just this past semester like a PP said. She just changed universities last semester to follow a different degree. Lots of changes for her. I realize I'm caping but I'm cool with it..lol..sfun_chickendance

She can easily go private if she can't handle the additional followers, or is getting negative comments/attention (which she did for about 5 seconds but then came back because she obviously does like and want the attention). And I'm sorry, but just because she lost weight and did well with her pre-surgery prep does not give her a right to be an absolute a-hole to her followers. She's the worst.

January 6, 2017
1:31 am
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Squishydishy
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Meows: 38
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December 20, 2016

McSnarky meowed

rj88 meowed

The thing is, her page exploded with followers just recently. Then she got tons of PM/email negativity along with the support . Dealing with negative emails and trolls calling her a meth head, ungrateful c**t, just to name a few might put you in a cranky frame of mind. If you go over her 6mth journey, you see the same questions asked that have been answered on her posts. It takes a lot of time to answer emails and repeat answers. I'm not saying she's not been cranky, she has been. But I guarantee everyone of us has been b***hy and said things or taken shit too personally at times, etc. She's admits that she's sensitive in a few of her earlier posts. I just don't think all the support and all the negativity was something she expected to receive so quickly. While you think it's exhausting, I'm sure she thinks it's 10x worse dealing with it.  I wish I had 1/10th the drive to get shit done that she has. She's been going to school for the last couple years. Not just this past semester like a PP said. She just changed universities last semester to follow a different degree. Lots of changes for her. I realize I'm caping but I'm cool with it..lol..sfun_chickendance

She can easily go private if she can't handle the additional followers, or is getting negative comments/attention (which she did for about 5 seconds but then came back because she obviously does like and want the attention). And I'm sorry, but just because she lost weight and did well with her pre-surgery prep does not give her a right to be an absolute a-hole to her followers. She's the worst.

Exactly, if she truly just wanted to document her journey for herself, her account would be private and she'd have just a handful of followers that she knows in real life. In reality, she wants to make a living off her account. I'm not sure if the online training is her only source of income but imagining that it is, she has food in her mouth, clothes on her back, gym membership etc because of how big her account is. She owes it to her followers to treat them with respect. As far as I'm concerned, as soon as you start making money from an Instagram account, it's not yours anymore. Plenty of accounts get hateful comments and manage not to take it out on the nice ones. It's such self destructive behaviour to push away the people that support you because in time only the haters will be left behind.

January 6, 2017
1:54 am
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Mrs Grey
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Meows: 187
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March 23, 2014

Maybe instead of yelling at her followers to read throught her 7030 posts to find answers, she could set up a FAQ page and also include a help guide on how to respond to her positively without annoying her. I'm sorry of she already has something like this set up; I failed at finding it.

January 6, 2017
9:35 am
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Smoosh
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Meows: 3
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January 5, 2017

Again, I think it's great what she's done. It does take hard work and determination to prep like that for surgery but it's the fact that she is nasty and rude and just outright awful to people that cancels the whole thing out. I'm sure she had pre and post op anxiety about surgery but it is absolutely not an excuse to lash out at people who are generally curious about her Journey (god forbid you call it that) and for someone who is so unbothered by the haters she sure does talk about them any chance she gets. She gives "haters" every reason to hate. I think she has a need to be validated by all her followers on IG and when it doesn't work out the way she wants she freaks the F out. Not everyone is going to think you are perfect or agree with you no matter how much hard work you've put in, it's life and it's the internet and she's got to accept that and if she wants to have the type of account she has. She should also start being nicer to the people who are nice to her. Millions of people have anxiety and live very busy lives just like her you can't use those things as a crutch to be shitty to people. 



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