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Lyssjfit
January 6, 2017
10:04 am
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the_recluse
Hamcat
Meows: 122
Snarking Since:
February 9, 2016

The problem with her (and almost alllllll of the folks who have a GOMI thread) is that they don't get that 1. THEY are the ones who have put their lives on display 2. MANY (maybe not this broad, but many..) capitalize on having basically a public diary 3. People will get invested in their lives after HAVING BEEN INVITED TO DO SO.

I've posted the same sentiments on other threads: the ones with the fewest pages and most inoffensive snark are the ones who get their panties in a bundle over it.. cue the 'bullies' 'trolls' and 'they're just jealous' comments.

Seriously makes me LOL when they go that route, considering 99% of the comments here, on this thread, are that she's a shit person to her followers. But noooo the ones who get CENSORED FOR SAYING NICE THINGS and find their way here are the bullies!

January 6, 2017
10:49 am
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Obese Beast
Expert Hamcat
Meows: 452
Snarking Since:
May 27, 2015

Mrs Grey meowed

Maybe instead of yelling at her followers to read throught her 7030 posts to find answers, she could set up a FAQ page and also include a help guide on how to respond to her positively without annoying her. I'm sorry of she already has something like this set up; I failed at finding it.

That's what I don't get… She has hundreds of posts and not every one answers the questions. Like OK, some moron asking if you got new boobs when it says it in the caption is annoying… But why not just ignore it? Why flip out about it?
Yes she lost a crap ton of weight but hasn't she admitted to having restriction issues in the past? Sounds like body building is perfect for that and if she needs to be back in the gym after a week (???!!!) I wouldn't be surprised if she's addicted to exercise.

January 6, 2017
1:03 pm
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rj88
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Meows: 4
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January 5, 2017

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Maybe instead of yelling at her followers to read throught her 7030 posts to find answers, she could set up a FAQ page and also include a help guide on how to respond to her positively without annoying her. I'm sorry of she already has something like this set up; I failed at finding it.

That's what I don't get… She has hundreds of posts and not every one answers the questions. Like OK, some moron asking if you got new boobs when it says it in the caption is annoying… But why not just ignore it? Why flip out about it?
Yes she lost a crap ton of weight but hasn't she admitted to having restriction issues in the past? Sounds like body building is perfect for that and if she needs to be back in the gym after a week (???!!!) I wouldn't be surprised if she's addicted to exercise.

Yeah, I'm know sure why the words boobs or boobies bother her so much or why certain things set her off. But yes, she definitely needs a FAQ which gives all the basics but people are asking for specifics like her diet plan and her exact workout methods. The diet plan she's paid for, she's not giving it out. The workout methods are explained in early posts. People are too damn lazy to look it up. But also, if people really wanted to get a plan together for themselves, they'd do their own research instead of expecting Lyss's plan to work for them. I guarantee her macros/workout schedule aren't going to work for a 5'5" person. Requirements for food/macros/training would be completely different. People are curious but not curious enough to actually do the work and asking how tall she is, or how'd she get the weight off so quickly, etc is flipping annoying. She repeats everything over and over again pretty much every post. And people still ask how tall she is or what she's doing. And if you don't want to be her client based on what how you think she is online,more power to ya! But I doubt there's a shortage of clients who want to work with her and are fine her personality. Just because she's online, opened herself up doesn't mean she doesn't get empathy. Nobody would say the nasty comments they do on her account to her face because yo, no balls. Keyboard couragerolleyes

January 6, 2017
1:46 pm
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funnypants
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Meows: 1
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January 6, 2017

I've been a GOMI reader for years and years and this is the FIRST time I've created an account to chime in.  Funny that there's a few of us :)

I'm so so glad I found this thread!  And I found it because Lyssjfit complained about GOMI on her instastory.  I immediately jumped over here and found this and now my life is much more complete.

I cannot get over how rude she is.  Just as everyone already previously said.  I should unfollow her because she makes me angry, but I can't look away, I'm fascinated.  And the big question is why doesn't she make her account private?  That would solve a lot of issues.  Or just not go on Instagram at all. It's clearly upsetting to her.

I have crafted various comments to her but I'm always too afraid to post because I know she'll yell at me. She scares me, ha ha!

I also believe she has some mental health issues, i.e anxiety or OCD, so I try to give her the benefit of the doubt and know that she is struggling with something. You can tell she's an overachiever based on her intense studying and her obsessive working out and how she melts down when she isn't able to get to the gym.  That's not normal. But no big deal, we're not all perfect…  just my observation and it makes me feel a bit badly for her.

Also her boobs are amazing! Totally jealous. That surgeon did a good job. And why can't we call them boobs?? I just don't get it. She is scolding her followers all the time.  We are like little puppies, looking at her and trying to not make her angry, lol. 

January 6, 2017
2:27 pm
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McSnarky
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Meows: 41
Snarking Since:
August 3, 2016

rj88 meowed

Obese Beast meowed

Mrs Grey meowed

Maybe instead of yelling at her followers to read throught her 7030 posts to find answers, she could set up a FAQ page and also include a help guide on how to respond to her positively without annoying her. I'm sorry of she already has something like this set up; I failed at finding it.

That's what I don't get… She has hundreds of posts and not every one answers the questions. Like OK, some moron asking if you got new boobs when it says it in the caption is annoying… But why not just ignore it? Why flip out about it?
Yes she lost a crap ton of weight but hasn't she admitted to having restriction issues in the past? Sounds like body building is perfect for that and if she needs to be back in the gym after a week (???!!!) I wouldn't be surprised if she's addicted to exercise.

Yeah, I'm know sure why the words boobs or boobies bother her so much or why certain things set her off. But yes, she definitely needs a FAQ which gives all the basics but people are asking for specifics like her diet plan and her exact workout methods. The diet plan she's paid for, she's not giving it out. The workout methods are explained in early posts. People are too damn lazy to look it up. But also, if people really wanted to get a plan together for themselves, they'd do their own research instead of expecting Lyss's plan to work for them. I guarantee her macros/workout schedule aren't going to work for a 5'5" person. Requirements for food/macros/training would be completely different. People are curious but not curious enough to actually do the work and asking how tall she is, or how'd she get the weight off so quickly, etc is flipping annoying. She repeats everything over and over again pretty much every post. And people still ask how tall she is or what she's doing. And if you don't want to be her client based on what how you think she is online,more power to ya! But I doubt there's a shortage of clients who want to work with her and are fine her personality. Just because she's online, opened herself up doesn't mean she doesn't get empathy. Nobody would say the nasty comments they do on her account to her face because yo, no balls. Keyboard couragerolleyes

I'm not really sure what you're defending. She has an open, non-private Instagram account that had been detailing, with a ridiculous number of posts/videos/updates/etc., her prep for surgery. Of course people are going to ask questions. And I have never heard of demanding (with extreme rudeness) to look back through all of 7,000+ posts for an answer before daring to ask a question. Again, making the frickin account private if you don't want to get asked these questions.

And, again, no one is saying she doesn't deserve empathy or that she can't be upset when she gets actual rude or offensive comments. But that in NO WAY justifies being a huge b***h to her followers who literally are just saying nice things, but in a way she has for some inane reason decided isn't worded exactly how she wants it.

January 6, 2017
2:33 pm
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ohlordt
Kitten
Meows: 4
Snarking Since:
January 5, 2017

the_recluse meowed
The problem with her (and almost alllllll of the folks who have a GOMI thread) is that they don't get that 1. THEY are the ones who have put their lives on display 2. MANY (maybe not this broad, but many..) capitalize on having basically a public diary 3. People will get invested in their lives after HAVING BEEN INVITED TO DO SO.

I've posted the same sentiments on other threads: the ones with the fewest pages and most inoffensive snark are the ones who get their panties in a bundle over it.. cue the 'bullies' 'trolls' and 'they're just jealous' comments.

Seriously makes me LOL when they go that route, considering 99% of the comments here, on this thread, are that she's a shit person to her followers. But noooo the ones who get CENSORED FOR SAYING NICE THINGS and find their way here are the bullies!

I said plenty of nice things to her in public and in private. She and I had a great conversation and rapport going and then I said "dem boobies" and said that I meant it jokingly. She said I didn't have to be so crass and I apologized then she blocked me. If that makes me a bully then I'm cool with being a bully. She is, too. And she's a b***h. Plain and simple. You put your life on blast like this for the likes but then get pissed when someone calls you out on your bullshit you deserve to have a thread with jilted followers talking shit on you. 

 

With that said, I get crazy ass comments from people and crazy ass DMs from people. Do I get on IG stories and go f**king nuts? No. I delete them or I decline them or I block them. No need to go absolutely crazy when people are TRYING to be nice and – god forbid – showing they have a different personality than her. 

 

She is a nice person. Until you forget to read her mind and not post exactly how she thinks something should be posted. I'll still hate follow her. She's a c**t. 

January 6, 2017
4:06 pm
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Calico Clucker
Hamcat
Meows: 82
Snarking Since:
November 6, 2015

rj88 Seems to know a lot of information about Lyss. Maybe I'll just say hi Lyss!!thumbsuphi-103

 

For the record I really liked your page and found it super inspiring! I've been following since before the huge increase of followers. But your rude and impatient tone is just such a turnoff. One of the things that comes with success is that others want to learn from you and try to implement your practice into their lives. If you can't handle that in a kind way, why don't you go private? Or keep a journal for yourself? What even is the point to document publicly if not to inspire others and help them? I just don't get it.confused 

January 6, 2017
4:44 pm
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Mrs Grey
Hamcat
Meows: 145
Snarking Since:
March 23, 2014

Rj88 do you seriously expect people to read through over 7000 posts to find an answer to a question they might have? I find that rude. Surely an FAQ page disclosing the info she wants requiresless effort than getting flustered over questions. No wonder you white knight for her, you both can't think logically.

For what it's worth, I dumped my trainer because of her online posts shaming people who did not share her mindset and rudeness. Not to mention she failed to get a meal plan for me in place because she was too busy. Apparently my ex trainer has to move around the country a fair bit in an attempt to gain new clients when her appalling attitude gets noticed and word spreads. Good luck to Lyss with that.

January 6, 2017
4:51 pm
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Deadbeatmom
Kitten
Meows: 8
Snarking Since:
January 2, 2017

Calico Clucker meowed

rj88 Seems to know a lot of information about Lyss. Maybe I'll just say hi Lyss!!thumbsuphi-103

 

For the record I really liked your page and found it super inspiring! I've been following since before the huge increase of followers. But your rude and impatient tone is just such a turnoff. One of the things that comes with success is that others want to learn from you and try to implement your practice into their lives. If you can't handle that in a kind way, why don't you go private? Or keep a journal for yourself? What even is the point to document publicly if not to inspire others and help them? I just don't get it.confused 

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January 6, 2017
6:09 pm
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Lunarz
Kitten
Meows: 4
Snarking Since:
January 5, 2017

Speaking personally, I did try trawling through Lyssjfit's instagram account to find out some details on her weight loss tips and also the prep she has done for her surgery. I went through loads of posts (at least 100) and found nothing. After the unkind responses she has made to other people when they asked her about it, I have moved on to other sources now as clearly she doesn't want to share her methods. What a shame, as she is in a position to help thousands of people. Maybe she wants to keep them to herself because she intends to put them in these two books she is apparently writing – or maybe they are only for her clients – but if so, why not just say that instead of telling people to trawl through her thousands of posts?

As for her rudeness to people who are nice to her – regardless of whether or not she has a public instagram account – how about just being a decent human being to people who are showing you support? Like the rest of us are.

January 6, 2017
7:37 pm
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fitbitbrit
Cat
Meows: 31
Snarking Since:
December 1, 2016

Calico Clucker meowed

rj88 Seems to know a lot of information about Lyss. Maybe I'll just say hi Lyss!!thumbsuphi-103

 

For the record I really liked your page and found it super inspiring! I've been following since before the huge increase of followers. But your rude and impatient tone is just such a turnoff. One of the things that comes with success is that others want to learn from you and try to implement your practice into their lives. If you can't handle that in a kind way, why don't you go private? Or keep a journal for yourself? What even is the point to document publicly if not to inspire others and help them? I just don't get it.confused 

I am so glad I am not the only one who thinks it's her. idontknow

January 6, 2017
8:41 pm
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Somelady5
Kitten
Meows: 2
Snarking Since:
January 6, 2017

So there are a few things about this girl that bug me. 1st she is premoting doing a prep for surgery which is rediculous. Any surgeon you talk to will tell you you need to be at a maintainable weight for skin removal as after its done you are pretty much in a weight restriction (10-20lbs up or down) or you risk messing with the results of the surgery. Second she speaks so highly of herself and what she's done and how prep made her heal quicker then most…….well I had the same surgery and it seems her healing is pretty well on par with mine (I didn't prep) only I didn't swell and I stopped taking pain meds quicker. I'd hate to see someone follow her example and get down to 11% body fat (which is very hard to maintain over a long period of time) and then wreck their results by inevitably gaining weight back.

If she is documenting for herself why is it that her post clearly talk to people "omg you guys I'm so happy", "so much to tell you guys so watch the insta story" ect. not to mention the naked pictures on the insta story (I don't believe those get saved altho I could be wrong) which can't be for documentaion purposes if they arnt saved. She says "I will share what I want I don't owe any of you anyyhing" but what exactly is she leaving to the imagination???

I'm by no means am I saying she hasn't worked hard or that what she has done isnt amazing but if I don't want people commenting about my life or my choices just don't post about it or keep it private.

She is a very immature 25 year old who lives at home with mommy and daddy and needs to learn how to interact with people. I also spoke with her a couple times and just like the previous posters I asked the wrong question (she hadn't answered it anywhere) and had my ass chewed out for it. But I wish her luck in her life as I think she may very well need it with her attitude!!!!

January 7, 2017
1:26 am
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Stephyoung
Kitten
Meows: 4
Snarking Since:
January 5, 2017

She expects people to read every single one of her 7000+ posts, probably comments included. I did went through some of her past posts to learn but it's just nearly impossible to do it when some one has so many posts. I don't blame her, I blame Instagram for not coming with a good tool for that.

but as a b***h as she is, she would block people just for that, trying to learn from her past posts. I'd never commented on any of her posts until one day I dared to agree with someone who commented "i try to go to your first posts and my phone keeps crashing" i literally just commented "same" then boom! Blocked.



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