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Freckled Fox
November 30, 2016
11:39 am
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VomCat
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November 29, 2016

onatrek meowed

tulips grow wherever the f**k you plant them dumbass meowed
^ It sounds to me like he became their home health aide.

Some do live in rather than coming and going to care for the patient.

I suspect he's making the situation sound more caring and altruistic than it really was. He probably needed a place to stay at a time when the family needed extra help around the house.

Combined with other things he sort of alluded to (IMO) I'm wondering if he's really using that story to attempt to "set the stage" for saying something along the lines of "what almost no one knows is…"

And then basically say he did something similar (on a lesser scale) for them prior to Martin dying (probably saying even to the point that only a very small circle knew or something) and 'miraculously' have that as the explanation for how/why this happened so fast. rolleyes

Or something along those lines…

And if that's the case and it does go that route, based on the way he's writing, I almost wouldn't be shocked if he/they took it even further, to the point of somehow trying to make it seem like Martin was even behind it (like an "Oh, remember your old friend…and I heard / you had said…he helped a family in the past…") since there'd obviously be no way anyone could "refute" the story since he obviously can't be asked now. uh

Yep! 100%. They are completely setting the scene. Trying so hard to make out this is all okay.. Plus will make it SO much better for when the baby announcement comes. I would put a bet on it that these details are what Richards hinted to – "make sense". Ugh. angry
The more I read here the more aggravated I get about him.

November 30, 2016
11:55 am
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Sweetie Darling
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Meows: 105
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June 4, 2013

I've decided that he is just a doofus. In my mind he's on par with Mallory Keaton's boyfriend Nick on "Family Ties". 

November 30, 2016
11:55 am
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B***hinAintEasy
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Meows: 62
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August 4, 2013

What if it didn't happen?  What if the whole Lydia story was made up to make him look like the doting new dad?  Wishful thinking?  She, being so young, couldn't verify the story if anyone asked her. 

I mean these two nuts aren't too tightly shelled and I wouldn't put anything past them.

 

OR, it's not Dick Van Wolf and it's Emily writing it as him?

 

 

As for the unsealing to Martin, I am not Mormon but when I read that my heart broke for Martin but the farther this goes I'm thinking he dodged an eternal bullet.  Sorry to all the Mormons but I hope you're wrong about eternity and Martin can spend it with his kids while FF and DVW put each other's hair up in dirty buns forever. 

November 30, 2016
12:06 pm
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DenimChicken
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May 31, 2013

b***hinAintEasy meowed
What if it didn't happen?  What if the whole Lydia story was made up to make him look like the doting new dad?  Wishful thinking?  She, being so young, couldn't verify the story if anyone asked her. 

I mean these two nuts aren't too tightly shelled and I wouldn't put anything past them.

OR, it's not Dick Van Wolf and it's Emily writing it as him?

As for the unsealing to Martin, I am not Mormon but when I read that my heart broke for Martin but the farther this goes I'm thinking he dodged an eternal bullet.  Sorry to all the Mormons but I hope you're wrong about eternity and Martin can spend it with his kids while FF and DVW put each other's hair up in dirty buns forever. 

Where does it say this?? others-221

November 30, 2016
12:18 pm
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B***hinAintEasy
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August 4, 2013

Someone up thread mentioned it. 

November 30, 2016
12:23 pm
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Pink Feminine Undertone
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Meows: 154
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April 12, 2015

Just to be clear, I meant absolutely no disrespect to Martin or his family in my post.  I have no doubt whatsoever that Martin loved her madly and everything he did for her was a product of his everlasting love.  

Emily was *Martin's* sweetheart and one true love. I don't think he was hers, except she loved the money and the fantasy life. 

I just cannot believe she loves anyone but herself or anything but her brand.  I've based this on:

  1. Everything thing she's written on the blog, IG, FB, etc. since Martin's passing
  2. The carefully curated "oh look … how sad, the grieving widow and children" photos (complete with @ss shot wearing F Me shoes)
  3. The photos of the happy shiny new perfect family — with the amazing wonderful new husband she married 3 months after Martin's passing
  4. The relentless sponsored posts
  5. The oh so obvious attempt to show Wolfie as the family's savior coupled with the erasing of Martin from the children's lives
  6. The self-serving posts from "Richard" that no one believes he actually wrote

I think she met Martin years ago, saw he (and his family) were rich, saw he could give her the fantasy life and went about her calculated campaign to get Martin to love her/ marry her.

I think Martin saw what Emily wanted him to see, saw the image she presented to the world in her blog. That's who he loved. Emily's behavior in the last 6 months has let her mask slip a little showing the real Emily.

None of this is in any way critical of Martin.  She's good at what she does and very believeable.

Martin believed she was who she appeared to be.  The world believed it too.

November 30, 2016
12:28 pm
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Eastshore
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Meows: 57
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April 16, 2014

I read "his" post and it made me very sad for the kids, especially Lydia. I feel like he didn't really write it. I also think that it was an attempt let the reader get to know him and say "aaaww, how sweet!" but I think instead everyone is going uh

November 30, 2016
12:39 pm
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Wilumsb
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October 4, 2016

@TOG writes:

"Here is what I know. Yes they do want to cancel the sealing to Martin. And they started talking about getting married soon after Martin passed away. Engaged in the middle of August, married beginning of September.

I know more about this disgusting situation than I want. Richard broke another's heart so that he could be with Emily and also so he "set for life" with all of the money that she has off of the go fund me."

I am DYING to know more

Question: If they cancel her and Martin's sealing, what do Mormons believe happens to Martin? Does he just have to be alone for all eternity?

I was in the same ward w Martin for 5-6 years and worked on several projects with him. He is every bit as amazing as those who know him and family have said here. Martin was always serving others, and often became aware of a need and would quietly go about lifting their burden. I was blessed to have worked on several situations with him. Martin always put others first. You will never meet a man with more humility,and genuine Love for others and his Savior.
I still can't believe he is gone. That said, just a little perspective from watching Martin and Emily's relationship 6 months to a year before they were married. A close friend of Martin's and myself, and several others were concerned that she was dating him for the financial stability. It was very evident Martin loved her, we weren't convinced she was the same. Eventually we felt like that had shifted and felt like she loved him, for him.
Some have commented about her relationship w her family. As far as we know those relationships are fine, she is one of the youngest 4 I think. I think most of the older ones live in other states. Martin's family is very private, so all this mess all over the Internet is very distressing to them and never would have sought or dreamed they would be involved in. Both Martin's and Emily's dads have some serious health issues, this crazy is taking a toll.
The question above about them cancelling the sealing between Martin and Emily and what that means to Richard and Emily. First let me say it is nearly IMPOSSIBLE to have done with the situation they are in. First women can only be sealed to one man period. Men while still living can only be sealed to one women unless their wife dies. When a couple is sealed that sealing is considered intact unless there is a cancellation it is difficult to get a cancellation and takes a long time to complete. So what happens when a couple divorces? Once the legal divorce is granted a cancellation can be sought. So if the wife is ready to be remarried and sealed to a new spouse the cancellation is requested there's a ton of paperwork, interviews etc… if only the wife is prepared to be resealed at that time the cancellation is only granted to her. A resealing has to be scheduled before a cancellation takes effect. It would remain intact for the spouse not ready to be resealed until they are remarrying. The only time that a sealing cancellation is possible after a spouse has died is that there are no children sealed to them during the marriage.
A sealing involving children is never cancelled, it is never an option to seal children to anyone other then their own natural parents with the only exception being a child is legally adopted by both parents. So because Martin has passed away and their are 5 babies (Martin's biological babies) born under the sealing, that is exactly how it stays. Divorcing someone after Death isn't possible, and the church doesn't allow people to decide they hate the father of the children and start undoing sealing and resealing them to who ever we like this week. To cancel the sealing between E and M would cancel that sealing of E and Martin to his children. The Lord is not a God of confusion or disorganization. So Emily and Richard can be married civilly (which is what the on a mountain is) they can be married for time only in the temple meaning that she is only married to him while they are both living. So what happens to children born to her and Richard the are automatically sealed (w no cermony needed) to Emily and Martin. Because she and Martin were married (sealed) in the temple all children born to her are under that sealing. It is then all sorted out in the other side. So no Martin does not spend eternity alone. Emily can not unseal his children from him. And any kids born to her and Richard are automatically sealed to Emily and Martin. My particular situation, will have me sealing my parents to one another and then my siblings and I to them after they die. 1 was excommunicated one never a member. They have been divorced 28 yrs and the last two people who should be sealed are those 2 but the sealings will be done and because like here we have agency to choose we will have that choice to not have a relationship w them if we don't want. The Lord won't force us to be miserable for eternity. He loves us. mixed-smiley-030

November 30, 2016
12:47 pm
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Mistress Of All Evil
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Meows: 425
Snarking Since:
March 6, 2015

Damn, it won't let me quote but…

 

Heavenly Shaft

 

someone need a new username? rofl

November 30, 2016
1:13 pm
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Lurking Nondescript
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Meows: 301
Snarking Since:
April 17, 2014

I am pretty new to the Freckled Fox. I read a few posts (all post-Martin) and then watched a couple of old Youtube hair tutorials and was shocked by the difference between her saccharine syrupy sweet wholesome current blog image, and the brusque and joyless personality on video (not to mention her low mannish voice). It's like two completely different people! 

 

I think she must have some kind of special  voodoo that entrances men. How else could she have convinced Dick to father her five children within a few months of becoming a widow? Any clear thinking man would insist on moving more slowly. And could they SERIOUSLY not call him papa or something other than daddy??? For someone who's entire brand is about being maternal, she is sure treating her children carelessly.

November 30, 2016
1:14 pm
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a dollop of thlack-jawed
Feline Porklord
Meows: 1200
Snarking Since:
March 8, 2012

Wolfdick trying to sell an old bed:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HztlxGosxqs

What Danny cooking?
November 30, 2016
1:37 pm
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Porny LaRue
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March 25, 2014

I usually just lurk this thread, but man I'm started to get pissed with these clueless assholes. Obviously Wolfie fancies himself a famous blogger now. He needs to stick to creating the perfect messy man-bun tutorials, or how to marry into money but hold on to your ne'er do well surfer/homeless chic style snd stop with the splashing little kids' grief processes and private emotional journeys about their father's VERY fresh death all over the Internet.
If I wasn't already convinced that sweet doe eyed Emily is the world's most pathological narcissist, this would do it…she should be ASHAMED for allowing and participating in this! It's very telling that strangers are more concerned with L's privacy than her own parents…angry

November 30, 2016
1:48 pm
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amb297
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Meows: 152
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October 9, 2012

Oh my gosh, this whole situation has always left me feeling for Martin's family, but this post has absolutely highlighted how devastated and powerless they must feel. 

 

meyersfam et al, if you're still reading here, you're absolutely in my thoughts, and I hope that you and the children can find some peace and comfort together in the days, months, and years to come. 



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