March 11, 2015
If anyone needs a good laugh, Bobby posted about the original Santa being Muslim and Turkish.
I. AM. DEAD.
Edit: To clarify, the origin stories of Santa obviously stem from Saint Nicholas, the actual man who was born in what is modern Turkey, though back then it was Greece. The Muslim bit though, no.
September 12, 2016
Kait is proving herself to be such a joke. Boss b***hes don't beg random strangers.. they buy themselves the things that they need to get by, you know, like gloves, and transportation. Get f**king real.
April 28, 2015
Kait is basically blaming Gabe and Lauren for not knowing when Scar's last day of school is. And how tacky that she's giving Scar's teacher "untouched" samples from her ipsy bags beacuse she's broke.
Thought her business was so successful?
August 31, 2015
Wow, what a POS for blaming the fact that she can't be bothered to keep up with Scarlet's school stuff on coparenting. Like, really? F**king really? Being divorced keeps you from being able to ask your kid "when does your holiday break start?" huh? Do school calendars not exist anymore? You can't be bothered enough to know your kids last day of school but because she dyes Scarlet's hair weird colors and gets her extravagant pop culture based gifts she's such a cool, hip, caring mom. Kait and Scarlet's relationship reminds me a lot of my mom and me and let me just tell you, I still resent her heavily.
May 14, 2013
MACARONS, Kait, not MACAROONS. This drives me insane. They've become so popular you think people could spell by now, but apparently not.
Also, she is so damn good at making everything look bad. A mug, ornament, makeup, tea and jewelry is a lovely teacher gift, especially since teacher gifts are in no way required or expected (source: was a teacher for 5 years, got a gift from maybe 3 or 4 students every year). There's no reason to preface it by saying it's because she is omg broke and that the makeup is old samples and the earrings are something she owns but would never wear. Also, why on earth does she usually give SAGE? So the teacher can cleanse the classroom of the evil spirits of the students??
The whole "I'm Broke" thing really bothers me, since Bobby has such a decent job. If he adores Scarlet as much as he says he does, would it kill him to bite the bullet and buy a Starbucks card for his stepdaughter's teacher? Though she gets on my nerves, I do like Kait, and I hope for the very best for her and for Scarlet. Posts like this one, and when she was withdrawing from Effexor, and told the internet she needed gloves for her commute….it just makes me genuinely sad and worried and think that Bobby is truly a toxic piece of shit. I can understand keeping your finances separate but sometimes you pitch in for the one you care about. If I was unable to afford my medication and had to take to the internet to beg for warm clothes, it'd show I had zero support system. I feel really sorry for Kait.
September 12, 2016
What they're doing is living beyond their means. They bought a house that was instagram worthy rather than one they can afford. They go to eat at nice little hipster joints on a value menu budget.
She CHOOSES to let her issues be more important than providing for herself and her child. I do not feel bad for people like her.
ETA: La Croix
June 6, 2011
How does she not have a proper winter coat for her daughter?!
May 14, 2013
So true re: eating at little hipster joints. I will also add rock climbing and yoga to that, as well. Does anyone else wonder if she is desperate for Stila Cosmetics to feature her/sponsor her or something?
EDIT: Just saw the post with Scarlet wearing Bobby's coat and it's heartbreaking and infuriating. Stop buying her flimsy little Etsy dresses and get her something warm! Kait is also coming across as very jealous that Scarlet won a game for having perfect attendance, and also rather willfully ignorant. If you want to know where the game came from, whether it was donated, etc., JUST f**kING ASK.
November 28, 2016
Yeah! Why must she stand in front of him like that and why must he look at the camera when they go in for a kiss? So strange and awkward. What a pair of creeeeeps. Stand next to each other and smile for the company Christmas party.
She is an idiot who can't even google search her own kid's school calendar! I doubt she has helped Scar with her perfect attendance.
Surly one of all the people who love that kid got her a winter coat. I just think the kid likes to wear her stepdads coat. I hope!
Yes. Before too long Kait will be so so sooo jealous of Scar becasue (in Kait's eyes) how dare she grow and thrive without her. I'm sure she is already jealous Scar gets to run off living with her dad half of the time and loser Kait is stuck with loser Bobby. Who is only nice to Kait when Scar is around. Kait said something about Scar being their cupid which makes more since now becasue cupid makes people fall in love when they really aren't. Bet shes jealous of how nice he is to Scar and he really wants nothing to do with her anymore. Scar will start to really understand how f**ked her mom is when she grows older. Only a matter of time.
If they stay married till Scar turns 18 and goes to college I don't know what other "glue" they'll use to keep them together. Kids are smart. They know when their parents are bullshit and want to get away from them. Hopefully Scar is a real independent young lady who can show her mom how it is done.
March 18, 2015
I assume Bobby is also broke. He's a car salesman, which can pay well but is mostly all about commission, so it can also pay shit. I don't think their finances are nearly as separate as Kait likes to say they are.
She shared her amazon wishlist AGAIN because sooo many people are asking her for book rec's. Okay. Because wanting recommendations and wanting to know the books you plan to read someday are the same thing? Also, what do book recommendations and your wanting a $600 vacuum have in common? I think the thing that annoys me most about her wishlist is that back during her wedding fundraiser, she kept saying how she and Bobby already lived together and they didn't need household stuff or traditional wedding gifts, blah blah blah…but now they need dish sets and a vacuum and decor. Cool. Is there a way to tell if people are actually buying her any of this crap? I'd like to think her followers aren't that dense, but who knows…
August 25, 2016
She hasn't posted anything about her new restaurant job since she got it… do you think she already quit/got fired?
And a note on her jealousy towards scar. Kait is a narcissist and it is obvious that Scarlets development is more a "look at how great a mom I am, mememe" and not so much about her daughter blossoming into her own unique person. As scarlet grows older there is going to be more resentment from Kait as she tries to do her own thing without it giving her mom the attention/credit she craves. /r/raisedbynarcisissts on reddit is basically Kait in a nutshell.
May 14, 2013
Scarlet is very smart. She clearly spends a ton of time with her dad, stepmother and baby sister, but knows that her mom will talk smack/poison her against them, so wisely she keeps it all very separate and secret. That is so much for a kid her age to take on and it's heartbreaking. :(
Also…did ya'll see this post from her tumblr?
"3 years ago today we got too gin drunk and made out to rilo kiley. We slept together in a house without heat and drove to Dallas the next day on a whim. Since that day our expectations and lives in general have changed so much. We have a house, a marriage. We’ve lost a baby and possibly the idea of ever having one. We’ve both been diagnosed and are seeking treatment for our whispering demons. We have new rules and boundaries. We have seen a lot of truly ugly things come out of each other. We’ve also shared every holiday together since the minute we met. I’ve heard of fast friends, but you were fast family. We are raising a smart and hilarious child. We have years of history behind us, and hopefully in front of us as well. Last night in the middle of the night you woke me because the full moon in Gemini was lighting up our entire bedroom. You held me as we fell back to sleep gently under it’s glow. Here’s to three years and here’s to learning and growing and changing for the better."
Coupled with the horror-movie wedding picture, it's downright depressing.
November 19, 2013
Narcissist mom of the century- Kait will take credit for every brilliant thing Scarlet ever does yet never own up to the fact that she might be f**king Scar up. If Scar calls Kait out in the future, Kait will deny deny deny, saying she did the best she could and she always did what was right for her kid. Yikes.
And sorry, got to but here Kait is again showing off her "hippy" body- contorting to show a thin waist, thighs/ass that look huge, sticking her chest out, tagging "thickthighedbabe" when she is literally 100lbs soaking wet. Preaching body positivity, yet celebrating her disorder.