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Kait Payne
December 14, 2016
11:32 pm
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optimist13
Hamcat
Meows: 172
Snarking Since:
November 21, 2014

Maybe I've been infested with the holiday spirit, but I'm going to WK briefly for Kait.

 As an elementary teacher, getting "free samples" (which those didn't even look like sample sizes) would not f**king phase me. Trust me, teachers themselves pull that shit on a regular basis. We're broke okay? For a colleague's baby shower I paired some free samples I've received through something similar to ipsy (but for infants ) with a gift card. One of my colleagues gave me a secret santa today it had  a lot of supplies and stuff I know came from her personal stockpile. Didn't bother me, I know her and her husband are going through lean times and they have kids and it's almost Christmas and it was all new (or as Kait would say, "untouched") stuff that I do genuinely need. So, the teacher was probably grateful and probably enjoyed it more than bath bombs (teachers in general ain't got time for that) and sage (wtf do you do with sage besides cook delicious chicken dishes?)

 

That said, it is more than ridiculous that she would not know when the break started. The calendar is more than likely online and with as much time as she spends on internet, she has no excuse not to look it up. Or, find out it either the school itself or the PTA have an active socal media page and follow it for updates.

December 14, 2016
11:57 pm
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redpanda
Hamcat
Meows: 154
Snarking Since:
May 10, 2016

Okay, I'm surprisingly gonna vouch for Kait a little – I think that Scarlet was just wearing Bobby's coat because she wanted to, not because she didn't have her own. I also think she was complaining about Scarlet get a gaming system more because if the school had funding enough to get kids videogames then they should be spending it elsewhere – I think that's why she talked about it being a donation. I know Kait has a lot of faults, but let's be realistic. 

 

Either Kait already quit her job or she just has very limited hours that she works. Who knows. But I am very impressed with how wonderful Scar is turning out. She's clearly such a smart and mature girl. She's already grown up faster than she should have, but she still keeps so positive. Good for her!

EDIT: Lol nice timing, optimist.

December 15, 2016
6:58 am
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Whenever I get a thought I want to share here, I read through the last few pages and end up feeling too guilty to say anything. Some of the criticism is so extra. I don't think she's a bad mom, or anything. There are plenty of young moms who are also working class, struggle with mental illnesses, have issues with alcohol, etc. She's not really a "mommy blogger," she's basically just a MySpace scene kid who never learned how to live without that attention from strangers.

 

But since I'm here…

 

1.) Babe Wear always bugged me a little because I knew I had seen that idea somewhere before. I gave up trying to figure out what it reminded me months ago, and then yesterday it hit me. It's the plot of a frigging Glee episode! Everyone writes their biggest insecurity on a white t-shirt and wears it around to take ownership of that "flaw" and turn it into a source of empowerment, or whatever. 

 

Maybe it's just a coincidence, but that was years ago when the show was really popular, so even someone as cool and edgy as Kait could have seen it. They included "big nose" and "OCD," too. It's cracking me up that someone has become #inspirational doing the same damn thing and charging for it.

 

2.) I'm not invested enough to make a Tumblr and send her a message that will probably be ignored, but WHY is she not already on Social Security for her obvious disability issues? Just the fact she's too anxious to learn to drive, despite having a child (which would be motivation enough even for someone with manageable anxiety) would lend her case a ton of weight. She clearly has trouble holding down a job that would support her, and the way she talks about her miscarriage makes it sound like that extra trauma made it even worse. It just seems like an obvious thing for her to have explored by this point in her life. She also could have been getting welfare, food stamps, etc, before marrying Bobby. Unless he's the world's best car salesman, they might STILL qualify for those things. 

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December 15, 2016
9:05 am
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okthen
Hamcat
Meows: 145
Snarking Since:
September 12, 2016

I doubt she could qualify for govt assistance. They own a house and a car. Again, this all falls back on living beyond their means. Can't afford the meds you need to function? Probably shouldn't be eating out, buying name brand clothes, name brand sparkling water, etc.

But hey what do I know? I'm just a mom who also struggles with anxiety and depression who manages to put my kid ahead of myself every f**king day regardless of how hard it is. THAT is being a good parent.

December 15, 2016
11:07 am
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Poopssmith
Cat
Meows: 16
Snarking Since:
December 15, 2016

Lol @ her tagging canonusa in her latest picture of Scarlet on ig.rolleyes

December 15, 2016
12:08 pm
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justcause
Cat
Meows: 13
Snarking Since:
November 28, 2016

AND added #herown to yesterdays picture of Scar when she only had #mine a day ago on ig.

good job kait rofl

December 16, 2016
5:10 am
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fourseasonsofautumnn
Kitten
Meows: 9
Snarking Since:
November 21, 2016

I'm new and I've skimmed the thread but I have questions.

 

Can anyone give me a summary of how / when / why? she achieved any level of internet fame??

Why did strangers give them money for the wedding?

Does she ever do sponsored posts? Seems like her deal and it would generate some money. I actually don't mind the dreaded #spon post as long as it fits the theme. Like Oldjoy's terrible Mcdonald's addrool

 

Aside from that, I think she might be an interesting person to be friends with, I don't think it's fair to rag on her for having a mental illness. Impulsive spending is a classic sign of BPD / manic bipolar phases,  I used to work in mental health and lots of clients would be similar in that they would have heaps of new clothes / iPhone / mac makeup but call our service trying to get the electricity re- connected. 

I find amazon wish lists really tacky but what would i know because we don't have amazon here. If she's telling the truth that all her followers are teenagers then I doubt they are buying her stuff of the list? I saw that as more, look at my great taste in shit because she could have just as easily listed the three books that she had read already.

 

I'm also curious about the finances, do you think it's possible that they are better off than the say and it's more a ploy to bring in money for babe.wear the whole #girlssupportgirls #lowincome angle? The house looks really lovely to me, but houses in Australia are very expensive.

 

I agree with bustglitter she's not a mummy blogger this seems like a personal tumblr blog (I totally thought those where dead, I felt too old for tumblr at 17 idontknow). I don't think I've seen her give out any unsolicited child rearing advice which is a good start.

December 19, 2016
7:25 am
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justcause
Cat
Meows: 13
Snarking Since:
November 28, 2016

She looked so much healthier in those old selfies and even cute. Now she looks like a weak sad old lady. How many times will she mention that her and Bobby used to be just roommates? I'm guessing 1 out of every 10 post. 

December 19, 2016
1:41 pm
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optimist13
Hamcat
Meows: 172
Snarking Since:
November 21, 2014

She got her internet fame through her now mostly inactive Dear Scarlet blog. It was allegedly letters from her and her then husband (Scarlet's dad, Gabe) to Scarlet about what they were doing. She did take some decent pictures of Scarlet and between that and her and gave being very young hipster parents, they quickly became tumblr darlings. With all the young teens that frequent tumblr idolizing them and wanting to "be parents like that". There was a lot of fan art and even talk of her doing a children's book because people loved her letters to Scarlet. For a while she sold prints of her pictures (still weird to think strangers weee paying money for. Snapshots of some random little girl). Things began to spiral downward after her and gabe divorced. For a while they both kept updating and then she allegedly changed the password on him.

That's why she's categorized as a mommy blogger on here, since the majority of us got to "know" her through DS. Trust me, she got preachy about being a parent several several times and still does on occasion.

December 19, 2016
9:59 pm
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elbow
Baroness of Ham
Meows: 256
Snarking Since:
November 8, 2012

ugggghhhhhhh back at it again with the bullshit big ass/big thigh talk. i may have to unfollow her because the secondhand embarrassment is just too much. the video she posted about rob kardashian and boac chyna made me physically cringe. she reminds me of the 16yr old girls i work with. so dramatic, so over the top- the only difference is that those girls will look back on the things they do now and cringe. Kait is a grown woman embarrassing herself daily

December 22, 2016
11:21 am
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rocketman
Baroness of Ham
Meows: 231
Snarking Since:
April 28, 2015

She is now posting Lyft codes because "biking season is cold" yet literally a week ago she was posting about having an online shopping addiction and forgetting what she buys after she takes her meds at night. How does anyone feel sorry for this trainwreck?

 

I really dont know why I follow her anymore. She's infuriating. 

December 22, 2016
2:31 pm
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okthen
Hamcat
Meows: 145
Snarking Since:
September 12, 2016

She uses #mentalhealth as an excuse to free ride.

December 22, 2016
3:01 pm
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Dame Helen Chichester
Feline Porklord
Meows: 1034
Snarking Since:
February 11, 2013

I would see this thread at the top of the forum and wonder what all the fuss was about. I understood the snark about her wedding grifting, but once that was over, she just seemed like a lame, whiny hipster to me. So I Instagram stalked her going back a few months and finally got it, even though to this day, I still can't precisely put my finger on what is so vehemently infuriating about her.

This b***h! She's so special. She's had such a hard life and she has sacrificed so much and she is so fierce and keeping it together even though she has faced more challenges in her life than any other person alive ever. She has partied the hardest and done the craziest things and had the bestest friends and somehow lived to vaguecaption about it even though the haters, you guys *eyeroll*. Her kid is the coolest kid on the face of the planet, like you don't even know, she is somehow Kait's exact clone yet also smarter, cooler, wiser, fiercer, more prescient, more amazing than Kait, so much so that she can't even. People keep telling her she is ALMOST on the edge of too tiny but what are they even talking about, she is #bodypos #thighkween check out this #juicy #booty. Have you bought this "c*ntbabe" Tshirt for your tween yet?





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