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Hungry Runner Girl
August 6, 2013
9:45 pm
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I know the Jacobs personally and Billy is a scumbag. He has been cheating on Janae for a long time and using her for her money. I'm so glad she's through with him. Please respect her privacy and simply pray for her and Brooke. She's an amazing person as we all know!

August 6, 2013
9:49 pm
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My mama dont like you and she likes every one
Feline Porklord
Meows: 1354
Snarking Since:
October 23, 2011

She will never reveal what prompted the split and though I am so, so curious about it, I don't think we can expect her to. Obviously it's personal and obviously it's still fresh.

I doubt she can avoid the topic of Billy altogether – people will definitely keep questioning her, particularly when Brooke's birthday rolls around (there are already questions in her comments). Who knows, she may start moderating them, if she isn't already.

Pretty sure she'll say "Billy and I are no longer together. I still love him, wish him the best yada yada yada, but things happen." Something along those lines.

Man. I keep posting about it because I can't believe how hard it's hitting me. And it's feeding the pessimist in me that doesn't believe marriage works out most of time.

August 6, 2013
9:55 pm
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ILoveLamp
Count de Meowmy
Meows: 678
Snarking Since:
July 19, 2013

be_nice said
I know the Jacobs personally and Billy is a scumbag. He has been cheating on Janae for a long time and using her for her money. I'm so glad she's through with him. Please respect her privacy and simply pray for her and Brooke. She's an amazing person as we all know!

I was just thinking about how easy it would be for him to be a cheater since he's always "working so hard at law school."  Welp, thanks for the info- down with Billy Jacobs!hammer

August 6, 2013
9:57 pm
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realicecream
Baroness of Ham
Meows: 399
Snarking Since:
December 10, 2011

Something SERIOUS must have happened…and it must have happened really quickly.  I don't know what, but I know Janae, and she would not give up easily on marriage.

August 6, 2013
10:01 pm
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irritated
Feline Porklord
Meows: 1394
Snarking Since:
October 2, 2012

be_nice said
I know the Jacobs personally and Billy is a scumbag. He has been cheating on Janae for a long time and using her for her money. I'm so glad she's through with him. Please respect her privacy and simply pray for her and Brooke. She's an amazing person as we all know!

Whoa! So… was it with a guy? Cause my gaydar went off so hard every time I saw a picture of that guy.. can't believe you cats who think otherwise. And Janae seems like a nice girl, I'm sure she can do better than him, if he is a cheating, using, scumbag 🙁 I just don't know how she keeps posting about dessert and amusement parks at a time like this, but I hope that just means she's really strong :/

August 6, 2013
10:02 pm
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Adriana La Cerva

be_nice said
I know the Jacobs personally and Billy is a scumbag. He has been cheating on Janae for a long time and using her for her money. I'm so glad she's through with him. Please respect her privacy and simply pray for her and Brooke. She's an amazing person as we all know!

Hm, I'm skeptical if you're legit or not, but if you are, damn that's awful.

August 6, 2013
10:04 pm
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Adriana La Cerva

irritated said

be_nice said
I know the Jacobs personally and Billy is a scumbag. He has been cheating on Janae for a long time and using her for her money. I'm so glad she's through with him. Please respect her privacy and simply pray for her and Brooke. She's an amazing person as we all know!

Whoa! So… was it with a guy? Cause my gaydar went off so hard every time I saw a picture of that guy.. can't believe you cats who think otherwise. And Janae seems like a nice girl, I'm sure she can do better than him, if he is a cheating, using, scumbag 🙁 I just don't know how she keeps posting about dessert and amusement parks at a time like this, but I hope that just means she's really strong :/

Sorry that I assume a married man with a 1-year old isn't gay. rolleyes I know that there are exceptions to that, but damn, not every man is gay.

August 6, 2013
10:11 pm
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realicecream
Baroness of Ham
Meows: 399
Snarking Since:
December 10, 2011

Adriana La Cerva said

irritated said

be_nice said
I know the Jacobs personally and Billy is a scumbag. He has been cheating on Janae for a long time and using her for her money. I'm so glad she's through with him. Please respect her privacy and simply pray for her and Brooke. She's an amazing person as we all know!

Whoa! So… was it with a guy? Cause my gaydar went off so hard every time I saw a picture of that guy.. can't believe you cats who think otherwise. And Janae seems like a nice girl, I'm sure she can do better than him, if he is a cheating, using, scumbag 🙁 I just don't know how she keeps posting about dessert and amusement parks at a time like this, but I hope that just means she's really strong :/

Sorry that I assume a married man with a 1-year old isn't gay. rolleyes I know that there are exceptions to that, but damn, not every man is gay.

You'd be surprised.  There is a well known mormon family, and the guy came out as gay.  He has 3 kids and reported that he just fights his "gay urges."  He wanted a "normal" family more than being gay.  It happens more than you would think!

August 6, 2013
10:17 pm
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brett farve rookie card
Count de Meowmy
Meows: 622
Snarking Since:
August 18, 2011

realicecream said

Adriana La Cerva said

irritated said

be_nice said
I know the Jacobs personally and Billy is a scumbag. He has been cheating on Janae for a long time and using her for her money. I'm so glad she's through with him. Please respect her privacy and simply pray for her and Brooke. She's an amazing person as we all know!

Whoa! So… was it with a guy? Cause my gaydar went off so hard every time I saw a picture of that guy.. can't believe you cats who think otherwise. And Janae seems like a nice girl, I'm sure she can do better than him, if he is a cheating, using, scumbag 🙁 I just don't know how she keeps posting about dessert and amusement parks at a time like this, but I hope that just means she's really strong :/

Sorry that I assume a married man with a 1-year old isn't gay. rolleyes I know that there are exceptions to that, but damn, not every man is gay.

You'd be surprised.  There is a well known mormon family, and the guy came out as gay.  He has 3 kids and reported that he just fights his "gay urges."  He wanted a "normal" family more than being gay.  It happens more than you would think!

This is anecdotal, obviously, but one of my best friends has a partner who is a divorced former Mormon who had three children with his ex-wife before he came out and they separated. Interestingly, they actually have the healthiest co-parenting among any divorced individuals (and a whole lot of married ones…) that I know. Likely made possible by the fact that they both left the church during/after their divorce.

Anyway, it's an anecdote but one that I don't think is all that uncommon in Mormon culture.

August 6, 2013
10:17 pm
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NoThanks said
 

I leave GOMI for 2 hours and you hams dig THIS up?!  I swear one day you all will tell me I'm pregnant before the sperm sneaks past the goalie.

I laughed so hard at this!!

 

I am on the cheating bandwagon and sad for them all.

 

I think it would add depth to her blog if she would do a sincere post and not keep everything all sparkles and glitter. She deserves privacy for sure but could eventually show us a side of her that we don't EVER see, something real and not omg  candy and giggles.

August 6, 2013
10:19 pm
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My mama dont like you and she likes every one
Feline Porklord
Meows: 1354
Snarking Since:
October 23, 2011

be_nice said
I know the Jacobs personally and Billy is a scumbag. He has been cheating on Janae for a long time and using her for her money. I'm so glad she's through with him. Please respect her privacy and simply pray for her and Brooke. She's an amazing person as we all know!

If this is true, has Janae known he's been cheating "for a long time" or has it just been something others around them knew? The split just seemed so sudden, so was her filing for divorce and leaving a result of her finally finding out, or just being fed up?

I am so very glad that Janae has such an awesome family support system. And though Brooke will obviously always be a reminder of Billy, I am so glad Janae has her in her life – that child is pure joy, honestly.

Also, just as an aside re: the gay talk, pink pants does not a gay man make. rolleyes

August 6, 2013
10:24 pm
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Adriana La Cerva

whitecoat said

realicecream said

Adriana La Cerva said

irritated said

be_nice said
I know the Jacobs personally and Billy is a scumbag. He has been cheating on Janae for a long time and using her for her money. I'm so glad she's through with him. Please respect her privacy and simply pray for her and Brooke. She's an amazing person as we all know!

Whoa! So… was it with a guy? Cause my gaydar went off so hard every time I saw a picture of that guy.. can't believe you cats who think otherwise. And Janae seems like a nice girl, I'm sure she can do better than him, if he is a cheating, using, scumbag 🙁 I just don't know how she keeps posting about dessert and amusement parks at a time like this, but I hope that just means she's really strong :/

Sorry that I assume a married man with a 1-year old isn't gay. rolleyes I know that there are exceptions to that, but damn, not every man is gay.

You'd be surprised.  There is a well known mormon family, and the guy came out as gay.  He has 3 kids and reported that he just fights his "gay urges."  He wanted a "normal" family more than being gay.  It happens more than you would think!

This is anecdotal, obviously, but one of my best friends has a partner who is a divorced former Mormon who had three children with his ex-wife before he came out and they separated. Interestingly, they actually have the healthiest co-parenting among any divorced individuals (and a whole lot of married ones…) that I know. Likely made possible by the fact that they both left the church during/after their divorce.

Anyway, it's an anecdote but one that I don't think is all that uncommon in Mormon culture.

It probably happens more often in strict religious families than not, because there is so much more pressure to have hetero-normative families. I know it happens, but I don't think it's an extremely common thing.

I guess all the "omg he's gay!" comments are rubbing me the wrong way for some reason.

August 6, 2013
10:42 pm
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birdbones
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Meows: 49
Snarking Since:
April 9, 2012

Delurking after about a year here.  First, thanks GOMI for turning me to so many blogs!  (or "websites" as I tell my BF, as in "what are you doing, pay attention to me" "oh, just catching up on my websites") 

 

Secondly, it amazes me that these threads are right about so.many.things.  I read threads and think how that can't possibly be true and then 48 hours later Janae and Billy are getting divorced.

 

HRG was one of the first blogs I started reading after I found GOMI and pretty much the only "running" blog I stuck with even though I agree with some the criticisms about her blog I generally find it enjoyable reading.  I'm seriously shocked about this news although I felt like something was up within the last few weeks.  Pretty gross of Billy if that stuff about him cheating is true.  You CHOSE to get married and have a kid dude, grow up.  FWIW, I had a serious relationship with a divorced Mormon.  I'm not trying to pass judgment on any GOMI-ers who might be practicing Mormons but I can just say as an outsider the way they approach marriage and some of the beliefs about marriage seemed so off to me (so sorry so Catholic).  It seemed like they were all raised to think do your mission and marry the first okay person you meet and that makes you a good Mormon.  I don't know, I'm way oversimplifing things but it's just a strange culture.  

 

Anyway, like most other people here I'm genuinely sad about this (like I would be if two people I know IRL got divorced) and I wish Janae the best.         





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