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October 19, 2015
6:15 pm
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Purple21
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July 28, 2014

Celery Tantrum meowed

Snarky Librarian meowed 
Another weddingbee blogger also revealed once that Jenna revealed in their private fb group that he told her before the wedding that he wasn't sure if he would be able to get it up on their honeymoon since she hadn't lost enough weight. Apparently the reaction from the other bees was a resounding "wtf get out of this engagement now" which Jenna ignored. 

Honestly, this whole bit, along with the OTT pregnancy vagina prep, has always smacked to me of someone not entirely at ease with their sexuality. It would explain a lot, especially her need to advertise herself as a super-sexual being at all times.

I think TA definitely has his own issues, and has fully earned his "A", simply by enabling the abuse of his children (who I do think he cares for, but is too checked-out with his own stuff to fully recognize). But I don't buy all of Jenna's stories about him. I think because he denies her his approval and affection, she chases it all the more, and because as a narcissist, she's fundamentally unable to chastise herself for being overweight, or self-regulate her feelings on the issue, she chooses to project a lot of her dissatisfaction onto him. Not to say that he hasn't fed into it–I'm sure he has–but I'd bet anything that the locking up of food, etc, originated with her. He has enabled her so much, I see him as more of a scapegoat for a sociopath than anything. 

Ditto.  

October 19, 2015
11:10 pm
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its actually an apiary
Hamcat
Meows: 105
Snarking Since:
April 7, 2014

What's the deal with their two houses? Are they moving?

October 20, 2015
12:10 am
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Rehab Raggedy Ann
Count de Meowmy
Meows: 730
Snarking Since:
March 8, 2015

liz lemler meowed
What's the deal with their two houses? Are they moving?

Hamcats stumbled on the information about the house purchase by googling TA's name. Jenna has not breathed (typed) a word about it online. It appears they still live in the rented house. All anyone can do is speculate about the meaning of it all (see "Pure Speculation" thread).

October 22, 2015
3:28 am
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cat down low

Re: TA and his feelings towards her weight…she also mentioned at one point that he would ogle a high school photo of her (where she was much thinner) and talk about how much hotter she was back then. Class act. And didn't he leave her post its around the kitchen, too, with discouraging/food police sayings on them?

October 23, 2015
11:09 am
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what the f***ever

ETA: nothing to see here hammies–I posted in the wrong thread chair

SSSF but not as tired as the LadyCoder this morning.

October 23, 2015
4:57 pm
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Take me to the bedroom and be PRAGMATIC!
Count de Meowmy
Meows: 726
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October 12, 2012

ijustcannot meowed
Re: TA and his feelings towards her weight…she also mentioned at one point that he would ogle a high school photo of her (where she was much thinner) and talk about how much hotter she was back then. Class act. And didn't he leave her post its around the kitchen, too, with discouraging/food police sayings on them?

But she asked him to do it. Don't get me wrong, I think he's an asshole for other reasons, but I think in this case he just went along with what she wanted and didn't think much of it. Same with the picture – what she said is that he liked how she looked in it, so she wanted to look like that again. The conversation probably went something like "Look, this is how I looked in high school, should I make this my goal weight?" "Sure, go for it." "DIDN'T I LOOK SUPER HOT AND f**kABLE?" "Sure."

October 25, 2015
8:24 pm
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so many truths
Count de Meowmy
Meows: 665
Snarking Since:
January 13, 2015

are there links to TW1 and TW2?? chicken

October 27, 2015
10:07 pm
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sundae
Count de Meowmy
Meows: 527
Snarking Since:
May 29, 2013

what's the story behind the dishwasher being so difficult?

October 27, 2015
11:47 pm
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Purple21
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Meows: 4987
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July 28, 2014

sundaecake meowed
what's the story behind the dishwasher being so difficult?

Every time anyone criticizes her, she drags the dishwasher into it.  Someone could point out a spelling error in her latest blog post. "You don't know what it's like, rushing around with two kids and trying to unpack the dishwasher while I'm posting my blog with one hand!"  Don't try suggesting that she should do the blog while the kids are in daycare, or at least unpack the dishwasher first.

She did a Day in the Life post for a parenting website where she happily admitted she outsourced every aspect of parenting – including getting a teenage neighbour to come over each morning and help T2 get dressed – but life was still tough and exhausting because she had to pack the dishwasher all by herself. In the same blog post, she revealed that the kids were in daycare for breakfast (?) and lunch while dinner was a sandwich in the car on the way home, so it's still a mystery what she was putting in the dishwasher besides a butter knife and her cocktail glasses. 

It's become a bit of a standing joke – when she was moving, she outsourced all the packing as well, and posted a photo of her half-packed living room, saying she was exhausted on the lounge eating berries but luckily her parents had stepped in to help…  her mother was seen packing the dishwasher in the photo.

November 2, 2015
9:08 pm
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gocougErz
Hamcat
Meows: 86
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October 21, 2013

Has it ever been discussed that Jenna is on some serious medication.  I had a bit of an adderall problem a few years ago and Jenna ( shamefully ) reminds me of myself at my highest.

November 3, 2015
9:32 am
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Rehab Raggedy Ann
Count de Meowmy
Meows: 730
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March 8, 2015

gocougErz meowed
Has it ever been discussed that Jenna is on some serious medication.  I had a bit of an adderall problem a few years ago and Jenna ( shamefully ) reminds me of myself at my highest.

As far as I know, she's never mentioned anything like that. Anti-depressants have been recommended to her, and she said she didn't want to take them because they might mess up her libido. It's been speculated that she might be bipolar, with the way she takes on sudden new enthusiasms and then crashes. Internet diagnoses are always highly speculative.

November 3, 2015
11:06 am
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Snarky Librarian
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Meows: 1751
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October 27, 2011

gocougErz meowed
Has it ever been discussed that Jenna is on some serious medication.  I had a bit of an adderall problem a few years ago and Jenna ( shamefully ) reminds me of myself at my highest.

She was on Prozac in college: http://jnicholea.blogspot.com/2005/09/ive-seen-better-days.html

And she said a year or two back that her therapist wanted to get her back on antidepressants, but she was worried about how it would impact her sex drive.

November 3, 2015
11:17 am
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$$

Snarky Librarian meowed

gocougErz meowed
Has it ever been discussed that Jenna is on some serious medication.  I had a bit of an adderall problem a few years ago and Jenna ( shamefully ) reminds me of myself at my highest.

She was on Prozac in college: http://jnicholea.blogspot.com/2005/09/ive-seen-better-days.html

And she said a year or two back that her therapist wanted to get her back on antidepressants, but she was worried about how it would impact her sex drive.

And she's STILL complaining about the goddamn dishes! smiley-laughing004smiley-laughing004smiley-laughing004





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